My cousin and I frequently have to remind ourselves that we're young. I mean, to us, sometimes we don't feel that way. In terms of not being where we expected to be at this point in time, and receiving societal pressure because we're single at this age, a lot of the time we feel ancient. But screw that! We are young! And not having a family at this time only means that we should enjoy not having that responsibility right now. Whenever we go out, it's a constant reminder to us that we need to go out more and enjoy our youth. So as much as I'm a homebody, there will be plenty of time for staying in the house when I'm shacked up with babies. For now, I can do things like run off to Cincinnati or quit my job and hop a flight to London like I did in 2016. I don't have to take care of anyone else but myself. So as much as I'd love to be a wife and mother right now, that's not my present reality, so I can do whatever the heck I want! Even if I was in that position, I'd still want to jet-set around the world with my kids strapped to my back. The point is to not let your mind bog you down with false expectations that society puts on us. No matter where we are in life and what people think we should or shouldn't be doing, we can't forget who we truly are, and neglect our childish enthusiasm and free spirits. So make sure that you have a lot of freaking fun from now on!